After a very busy wedding weekend last week, we have yet another wedding this weekend as well! However, this time, it isn't family, it is an old friend of hubby's who hasn't included children at his wedding. Fair enough - I didn't want children at my wedding either and it will be more enjoyable just being the two of us without having to run around after Lily, but I just hate the thought of having to leave her behind...
Yes, she is being left with her wonderful grandparents who she absolutely adores so I have no doubt that she will be more than ecstatic with the arrangment, but it is me who has the issues. Firstly, I have terrible separation anxiety and hate leaving Lily for too long. I miss her SO much! Secondly, I know it is a morbid thought, but it is one I'm sure all mothers have... What happens to Lily should something happen to hubby and I on the long 4 or 5 hour journey to and from the wedding?
When Lily was smaller, we asked hubby's brother and sister-in-law to be Lily's guardians in the unlikely event that something should happen to us. I know they would love her and take good care of her, but the thought of her having to go to them at this stage of her life truly upsets me as she doesn't really know them. Comparing how happy and content she is with my parents just makes me feel like she should go to them. I have spoken to hubby and although he agrees that Lily would be happier at this stage of her life with my parents, he thinks it is wiser to let her go to his brother as they are young, can provide for her and will no doubt love her...
It is honestly the worst thing to have to think about, but I sincerely hope that should something happen to hubby and I and Lily were to be left in this world without us, that my parents would be allowed to hold onto her for a while and slowly introduce her to my brother and sister-in-law. I would also hope that my parents and my sister would be fully and totally involved in her life as they no doubt love her so very much.
These are the the things I've been thinking about this week and as a result have been feeling very emotional about it all. This wedding and weekend cannot end fast enough with our safe return home to our little angel pie xxx
Friday, March 9, 2012
Tuesday, March 6, 2012
The wedding
After all my apprehension, anxiety and nerves, the wedding weekend actually went exceptionally well! Our little angel was an absolute delight to everyone when she excitedly noticed and pointed at all the "eloplanes" at the airport. She kept on saying "there eloplane", "eloplane airport!" Luckily her excitement continued onto our actual flight with her looking out of the window, fiddling with the buttons on the arm rest and calling for "ganny & boka".
Thankfully Lily was an absolute angel on the flight (with a little thanks no doubt to the iPad for keeping the entertainment coming). She sat the majority of the time inbetween her "ganny" and "boka" leaving mom and dad to relax a little. Upon arrival in Johannesburg, Lily had a nice nap once we had taken receipt of our hire car - we had barely left the airport when her little eyes gave in and she nodded off.
The sleeping arrangments were one of my main concerns with us all in one small room and with daddy's snoring. My worries were unfounded as although the room was small, Lily had a little alcove where we placed the camp cot and she happily went to sleep both nights and for her day nap! I was so relieved. Daddy did snore as predicted, but it only affected me - Lily slept right through.
The wedding was a little bit more work for us and for Ganny though. Lily likes to chat so we had to go out of the church for the majority of the service. She did sit still during the reception and speeches so at least we got to enjoy that part of the wedding. The iPad throughout the entire weekend was a life saver providing plenty of entertainment - we will never venture away without it! Our flight home was also taken care of when we were delayed by 3 hours and Lily had to miss her day nap. I was quite anxious about the flight seeing she could possibly be rather miserable from lack of sleep, but she was an angel and sat nicely playing on her iPad for the majority of the 2 hour flight.
So all-in-all, we had a fabulous weekend away and Miss Lily Pie was a true little angel!
Some more pictures from our weekend away:
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| Looking out the window at the other eloplanes! |
The sleeping arrangments were one of my main concerns with us all in one small room and with daddy's snoring. My worries were unfounded as although the room was small, Lily had a little alcove where we placed the camp cot and she happily went to sleep both nights and for her day nap! I was so relieved. Daddy did snore as predicted, but it only affected me - Lily slept right through.
The wedding was a little bit more work for us and for Ganny though. Lily likes to chat so we had to go out of the church for the majority of the service. She did sit still during the reception and speeches so at least we got to enjoy that part of the wedding. The iPad throughout the entire weekend was a life saver providing plenty of entertainment - we will never venture away without it! Our flight home was also taken care of when we were delayed by 3 hours and Lily had to miss her day nap. I was quite anxious about the flight seeing she could possibly be rather miserable from lack of sleep, but she was an angel and sat nicely playing on her iPad for the majority of the 2 hour flight.
So all-in-all, we had a fabulous weekend away and Miss Lily Pie was a true little angel!
Some more pictures from our weekend away:
Thursday, March 1, 2012
33 week scan
Our little guy now weighs an estimated 1.8kg! He is still very much in the breech position and the doctor still highly doubts he will be turning. With this news, I decided to book my c-section date to ensure I am his first patient of the day and thankfully he operates in the mornings. So instead of waiting ALL day like I did for Lily's arrival (she arrived just before 5pm), I should be a mommy for the second time by about 8:30/9am on Thursday, 12th April 2012. That is exactly 6 weeks from today.
Should he turn by some miracle in the interim obviously we will reassess the situation for a natural birth. The doctor doesn't seem convinced that this is going to happen.
So although to everyone else this pregnancy seems to have flown by, it definitely hasn't for me. I think for the expectant mom, you definitely know that you've been pregnant for 33 weeks and as per usual, the last trimester seems to take the longest! I am getting more and more excited to meet my little boy, but I'm also making note to enjoy all the hours of sleep I'm getting as I realise they will soon be coming to an end... at least for a little while! But I honestly am more excited to have him in my arms than I am about having decent sleep. I can't wait to see who he looks like and to start our lives as a family of four.
Should he turn by some miracle in the interim obviously we will reassess the situation for a natural birth. The doctor doesn't seem convinced that this is going to happen.
So although to everyone else this pregnancy seems to have flown by, it definitely hasn't for me. I think for the expectant mom, you definitely know that you've been pregnant for 33 weeks and as per usual, the last trimester seems to take the longest! I am getting more and more excited to meet my little boy, but I'm also making note to enjoy all the hours of sleep I'm getting as I realise they will soon be coming to an end... at least for a little while! But I honestly am more excited to have him in my arms than I am about having decent sleep. I can't wait to see who he looks like and to start our lives as a family of four.
A big day!
Tomorrow we are all heading off to Johannesburg for my cousin's wedding. My parents, sister, brother-in-law, niece, hubby and of course Lily will all be on the same flight. As I've mentioned before, Lily is obsessed with planes and helicopters so I cannot wait to see how she reacts to the large "eloplanes" at the "e-port"! I am actually quite excited about our morning at the airport waiting for our flight.
I am however, rather anxious about the rest of the weekend. Firstly, hubby, Lily and I will be sharing a room for the first time. I don't know how the sleeping is going to go - I can only hope and pray it goes well. Lily's dad is known to snore every now and then and apparently, during this pregnancy, so have I! So I sincerely hope we don't disturb her... Perhaps some Aterax "assistance" will be necessary? I am going armed and prepared!
Secondly, I'm anxious about the actual wedding. Lily is an extremely busy little toddler and will most certainly not sit still during the ceremony and speeches. Hubby and I have decided to take turns with the babysitting so at least one of us gets to enjoy part of the ceremony and part of the speeches. We will have to have Lily with us throughout the evening, but luckily our accommodation is at the venue so as soon as things get out of hand or too late for our little munckin, one of us will go back to our room with her.
So holding thumbs, this weekend isn't TOO busy like I envisage it being...
I am however, rather anxious about the rest of the weekend. Firstly, hubby, Lily and I will be sharing a room for the first time. I don't know how the sleeping is going to go - I can only hope and pray it goes well. Lily's dad is known to snore every now and then and apparently, during this pregnancy, so have I! So I sincerely hope we don't disturb her... Perhaps some Aterax "assistance" will be necessary? I am going armed and prepared!
Secondly, I'm anxious about the actual wedding. Lily is an extremely busy little toddler and will most certainly not sit still during the ceremony and speeches. Hubby and I have decided to take turns with the babysitting so at least one of us gets to enjoy part of the ceremony and part of the speeches. We will have to have Lily with us throughout the evening, but luckily our accommodation is at the venue so as soon as things get out of hand or too late for our little munckin, one of us will go back to our room with her.
So holding thumbs, this weekend isn't TOO busy like I envisage it being...
Thursday, February 23, 2012
So beautiful and so true...
Someone shared this very pertinent, beautifully written poem with me about having a second child. I read it with tears streaming down my face - it really hit home and brought out so many emotions.
Here it is:
LOVING TWO
I walk along holding your 2-year-old hand, basking in the glow of our magical relationship.
Suddenly I feel a kick from within, as if to remind me that our time alone is limited.
And I wonder, how could I love another child as I love you?
Then he is born, and I watch you.
I watch at the pain you feel at having to share me as you have never shared me before.
I hear you telling me in your own way, “Please love only me” and I hear myself telling you in mine “I can’t”.
Knowing in fact that I never can again.
You cry, I cry with you.
I almost see our baby as an intruder on the precious relationship we once shared.
A relationship we can never have again.
But then, barely noticing, I find myself attached to that new being, and feeling almost guilty.
I’m afraid to let you see me enjoying him — as though I am betraying you.
But then I notice your resentment change, first to curiosity, then to protectiveness, finally to genuine affection.
More days pass, and we are settling into a new routine.
The memory of days with just the two of us is fading fast.
But something is replacing those wonderful times we shared, just us two.
There are new times — only now we are three.
I watch the love between you grow, the way you look at each other, touch each other.
I watch how he adores you, as I have for so long.
I see how excited you are by each of her new accomplishments.
I begin to realize that I haven’t taken something from you, I’ve given something to you.
I notice that I am no longer afraid to share my love openly with both of you.
I find that my love for each of you is as different as you are, but equally strong.
And my question is finally answered to my amazement.
Yes, I can love another child as much as I love you, only differently.
And although I realize that you may have to share my time, I know you’ll never share my love.
There’s enough of that for both of you — you each have your own supply.
I love you both and I thank you both for blessing my life.
—Author Unknown
Here it is:
LOVING TWO
I walk along holding your 2-year-old hand, basking in the glow of our magical relationship.
Suddenly I feel a kick from within, as if to remind me that our time alone is limited.
And I wonder, how could I love another child as I love you?
Then he is born, and I watch you.
I watch at the pain you feel at having to share me as you have never shared me before.
I hear you telling me in your own way, “Please love only me” and I hear myself telling you in mine “I can’t”.
Knowing in fact that I never can again.
You cry, I cry with you.
I almost see our baby as an intruder on the precious relationship we once shared.
A relationship we can never have again.
But then, barely noticing, I find myself attached to that new being, and feeling almost guilty.
I’m afraid to let you see me enjoying him — as though I am betraying you.
But then I notice your resentment change, first to curiosity, then to protectiveness, finally to genuine affection.
More days pass, and we are settling into a new routine.
The memory of days with just the two of us is fading fast.
But something is replacing those wonderful times we shared, just us two.
There are new times — only now we are three.
I watch the love between you grow, the way you look at each other, touch each other.
I watch how he adores you, as I have for so long.
I see how excited you are by each of her new accomplishments.
I begin to realize that I haven’t taken something from you, I’ve given something to you.
I notice that I am no longer afraid to share my love openly with both of you.
I find that my love for each of you is as different as you are, but equally strong.
And my question is finally answered to my amazement.
Yes, I can love another child as much as I love you, only differently.
And although I realize that you may have to share my time, I know you’ll never share my love.
There’s enough of that for both of you — you each have your own supply.
I love you both and I thank you both for blessing my life.
—Author Unknown
Wednesday, February 22, 2012
21 month angel
Even though the heading of this latest entry is 21 months, Lily is in fact 6 days away from her 22 months "mirthday", but I just felt it necessary to give an update on my precious little angel. I know I say this in almost every single post, but she is honestly too adorable, entertaining us on an almost hourly basis with her cute antics and infectious laugh.
Some of the things she is doing that need mentioning:
Some of the things she is doing that need mentioning:
- Lily can now count to 12! Something I'm very proud of as none of her little friends are doing so yet. I think she is making up for her "slow" start with crawling and walking so at least now I can say she is doing some things ahead of her peers.
- She says "I love you mommy/daddy/ganny/boka" on a daily basis. Just melts the heart!
- She calls Harley "Harley Boy". Have no idea where this comes from but is ever so cute.
- Lily is still obsessed with planes and helicopters and has to run outside as soon as she hears one flying overhead. She shouts "Hello eloplane / Bye bye eloplane!" I'm so excited as next week we are flying to Johannesburg for my cousin's wedding. I can't wait to see how excited she is at the airport and then of course when we board the plane and fly! I hope she is as excited on the plane as she is when she sees them flying by.
- She is still very fond of her iPad which thankfully provides many hours of fun and educational entertainment at the same time. It is still truly astonishing how she manoeuvres herself around the apps until she comes to the one she wants to play with.
- Lily also knows the names and sounds of so many animals - too many to list actually. She is amazing!
- She is stringing 3 and sometimes 4 words together to form little sentences so every day we are learning to communicate with each other better. It is now so much easier!
- She loves listening to her nursery rhymes in my car and tells me to put them on as soon as we start our journey. No more 5FM or KFM for mommy! She even asks for the particular song she wants - "Nana nana nana" is for the chicken dance song; "Pokey" is for Hokey Pokey" and "Clock" is for Hickory Dickory Dock.
- Lily has started to use the potty in the evenings just before her bath. I place her on her little potty seat and she reads a magazine while the bath water is running. Sometimes she will make a wee, other times not. We make a huge fuss when she does wee and just ignore the fact that she hasn't when she doesn't. She is definitely aware of the fact that she is weeing and pooing now as she sometimes tells us just before it happens. So I'm watching the signs for advancing her potty training although I'm in no rush with her little baby brother arriving soon.
- Sleep wise Lily is still a dream sleeping from 7:30pm-7am most nights with a decent 2-2.5 hour nap during the day, even while we are doing noisy renovations.
- The temper tantrums are starting although thankfully are few and far between. Hopefully it stays this way...
- Lily is still a terrible eater! I battle with her on most days for most meals. At the moment I can only rely on sausage, biltong, sometimes yoghurt, some fruit, cheddar cheese and dried fruit to fill her little tummy. She will NOT eat anything she doesn't recognise! Of course chocolate, sweets, ice-cream and chips go down without any problem! I'm relying on a daily vitamin for her to get some nutrition and praying that things improve soon. It has been like this for 6 months now so I really do hope it's nothing permanent.
- I'm not sure whether it is an age related thing or whether she knows a little brother is coming soon, but Lily will very seldom play on her own these days. Every time she wants to do something, it is "come mommy, come mommy" with an accompanied hand gesture willing me to follow her. Usually I wouldn't mind, but with my growing belly, it isn't easy for me to crawl on the floor, crawl into her cardboard house or sit in her sandpit! So I feel guilty in that I find myself saying no quite often. I try my best or we go for a drive to granny's house so her loving grandparents can take on some of the burden! Thank goodness for my folks!
Tuesday, February 14, 2012
Renovations
I can't believe that we decided literally at the last minute, to do renovations on our house. We are cutting the completion date so fine with the birth of our little guy, it is crazy! We have been contemplating doing renovations for quite some time, but only at the 11th hour did my dear hubby give the builder the go-ahead. The builder seems to be confident that the majority of the building will be completed by the end of March - I really hope and pray that he is right!
However scary the notion that we may still be busy with contractors, painters and the like when baby arrives, I am considerably calm about the matter. I suppose it has to do with the fact that there isn't much I can do about the whole thing should we go over the proposed deadline. Quite contrary to my nature, I'm at peace with the fact that the banging, unwanted intruders and mess may be a part of my life for longer than anticipated. I'm taking the stance that should completion happen prior to our little one's arrival, we have reason to celebrate!
I'm also in complete astonishment at my angel Lily. I had made plans to go to Granny and Grandpa during building for her day time naps due to the noise literally taking place right outside her bedroom window, but to my utter amazement, she has been sleeping through it all. I'm truly blessed with a great, deep sleeper - long may it last! Perhaps my fears of a crying newborn baby upsetting her wonderful sleep routine are going to be unfounded. I can only hope!
So at the end of all the mess, noise and inconveniences, we will have an extra upstairs room which will act as a play room, TV room and a tiny office. Gone will be the days of toys littering my downstairs lounge and hubby's bar area! Obviously there will still be evidence of toddlers inhabiting this house in our downstairs areas, but by a far less significant amount. I'm excited for the new decor ideas, for doing up Lily's new toddler bedroom and for our house to finally be repainted and looking gorgeous! It will definitely all be worthwhile in the end - something I have to keep reminding myself of when the noise levels, frustrating phone calls and admin gets a little too much! Exciting times ahead!
However scary the notion that we may still be busy with contractors, painters and the like when baby arrives, I am considerably calm about the matter. I suppose it has to do with the fact that there isn't much I can do about the whole thing should we go over the proposed deadline. Quite contrary to my nature, I'm at peace with the fact that the banging, unwanted intruders and mess may be a part of my life for longer than anticipated. I'm taking the stance that should completion happen prior to our little one's arrival, we have reason to celebrate!
I'm also in complete astonishment at my angel Lily. I had made plans to go to Granny and Grandpa during building for her day time naps due to the noise literally taking place right outside her bedroom window, but to my utter amazement, she has been sleeping through it all. I'm truly blessed with a great, deep sleeper - long may it last! Perhaps my fears of a crying newborn baby upsetting her wonderful sleep routine are going to be unfounded. I can only hope!
So at the end of all the mess, noise and inconveniences, we will have an extra upstairs room which will act as a play room, TV room and a tiny office. Gone will be the days of toys littering my downstairs lounge and hubby's bar area! Obviously there will still be evidence of toddlers inhabiting this house in our downstairs areas, but by a far less significant amount. I'm excited for the new decor ideas, for doing up Lily's new toddler bedroom and for our house to finally be repainted and looking gorgeous! It will definitely all be worthwhile in the end - something I have to keep reminding myself of when the noise levels, frustrating phone calls and admin gets a little too much! Exciting times ahead!
Monday, February 13, 2012
30 week scan
Today I went to my first scan on my own. My hubby was extremely hectic at work so I convinced him that this scan would be absolutely routine and ultimately healthy so he wasn't to worry and that he could join me at all the others. Thankfully, as predicted, the scan was perfect. Our little man is growing perfectly and weighs between 1.4 and 1.6kg. He is a big baby compared to his little sister who at this stage of pregnancy was just on 1kg.
He is still lying very much in a breech position and typically, like many breech babies, he has quite a large round head. I'm assuming this is because his head isn't squashed lying down in my pelvis where it should be or due to the large brain our clever little boy is growing :) Either way, the doctor still highly doubts there will be any change in his position, leaving me with punches under my right ribs and not feeling as much activity as I was feeling due to his legs almost pushing backwards towards my spine.
Due to the breech position, we are almost 100% looking at another c-section delivery. I'm happy with that though - I'm comfortable with what the doctor recommends and what's ultimately healthier for both baby and myself. I need to come through all of it for my little family as healthily as I went into the birth. Thinking about this does get me rather emotional though... When I had Lily, I was so relaxed, totally excited about meeting my little girl and I honestly had no care in the world. I wasn't nervous, anxious or scared. However, when I think about going into theatre for this birth, I find myself getting quite overwhelmed. I think I will be scared for Daniel, and especially for Lily. I want to always be here for her and just hope and pray that all goes as planned during my operation. As I said, I need to come out of this whole experience the same way I ventured into it - a healthy and happy mommy!
I know all will go well and am excited to meet my little man. He is definitely giving us no preview of what he looks like though and definitely wants the surprise to wait until his arrival. We tried to see him on the 3D scan on two occasions and due to his position, we couldn't get anything close to a decent picture. So we will have to wait and see - a day short of 2 months left to go!
He is still lying very much in a breech position and typically, like many breech babies, he has quite a large round head. I'm assuming this is because his head isn't squashed lying down in my pelvis where it should be or due to the large brain our clever little boy is growing :) Either way, the doctor still highly doubts there will be any change in his position, leaving me with punches under my right ribs and not feeling as much activity as I was feeling due to his legs almost pushing backwards towards my spine.
Due to the breech position, we are almost 100% looking at another c-section delivery. I'm happy with that though - I'm comfortable with what the doctor recommends and what's ultimately healthier for both baby and myself. I need to come through all of it for my little family as healthily as I went into the birth. Thinking about this does get me rather emotional though... When I had Lily, I was so relaxed, totally excited about meeting my little girl and I honestly had no care in the world. I wasn't nervous, anxious or scared. However, when I think about going into theatre for this birth, I find myself getting quite overwhelmed. I think I will be scared for Daniel, and especially for Lily. I want to always be here for her and just hope and pray that all goes as planned during my operation. As I said, I need to come out of this whole experience the same way I ventured into it - a healthy and happy mommy!
I know all will go well and am excited to meet my little man. He is definitely giving us no preview of what he looks like though and definitely wants the surprise to wait until his arrival. We tried to see him on the 3D scan on two occasions and due to his position, we couldn't get anything close to a decent picture. So we will have to wait and see - a day short of 2 months left to go!
Monday, January 23, 2012
A sponge!
I honestly cannot believe what a sponge my daughter is! You literally have to say or show her something only once for her to remember it... and not even within the next few minutes of saying it, but literally days later it will be brought up and remembered! She entertains and astonishes me on a daily basis.
I love it when I've woken up from a rough night of what seems like continual toilet visits and I happen to sneeze and this teeny little voice sitting next to me says, "Bess you mommy." It can melt my heart - so sweet how she knows to say "Bess you" and how she omits the pronounciation of the "l" in "bless"! Lily is also totally enthralled by aeroplanes at the moment and loves looking out for them shouting "Listen, airplane!" whilst pointing to her ear (well, actually whilst sticking her finger into her ear!). The look of complete excitement makes me excited at the prospect of spotting one for her.
Lily is also totally in love with her grandparents. Her whole body almost goes into a spasm of excited movements when she sees them and she shouts across the room, shop or mall for that matter, "Graaaannny!" The word "Gig Gig" is now a thing of the past... sad how quickly they lose the cute little words they create for the "proper" pronounciation.
She has also learnt the word "sore" and will say something is sore if she has hurt herself or if she wants attention. The attention thing is also getting more profound with her lying on the floor pretending to be hurt and calling "mommy, mommy" until I either pick her up (her aim!) or completely ignore her and she eventually gets up and continues with what she was previously doing. It is so hard ignoring her calls for me, but I can't be picking her up every time she wants attention, especially with my bump growing so large by the day!
Her vocabulary is enormous, I can't begin to list all the words she is now saying or stringing together. Some of them that I can recall at this moment are "wadee" for water, "thip" for ship, "bus", "naughty", "wowee" for flower, "dolthin" for dolphin, "ephant" for elephant, "Harley Boy" for Harley (as taught to her by her proud daddy!), "TV", "iPad", "phone"... the list as I said it truly endless! I just LOVE this age and am truly amazed at least once a day by her ability to recall and remember things I have told her or have said. Perhaps time to also start watching myself... :)
I love it when I've woken up from a rough night of what seems like continual toilet visits and I happen to sneeze and this teeny little voice sitting next to me says, "Bess you mommy." It can melt my heart - so sweet how she knows to say "Bess you" and how she omits the pronounciation of the "l" in "bless"! Lily is also totally enthralled by aeroplanes at the moment and loves looking out for them shouting "Listen, airplane!" whilst pointing to her ear (well, actually whilst sticking her finger into her ear!). The look of complete excitement makes me excited at the prospect of spotting one for her.
Lily is also totally in love with her grandparents. Her whole body almost goes into a spasm of excited movements when she sees them and she shouts across the room, shop or mall for that matter, "Graaaannny!" The word "Gig Gig" is now a thing of the past... sad how quickly they lose the cute little words they create for the "proper" pronounciation.
She has also learnt the word "sore" and will say something is sore if she has hurt herself or if she wants attention. The attention thing is also getting more profound with her lying on the floor pretending to be hurt and calling "mommy, mommy" until I either pick her up (her aim!) or completely ignore her and she eventually gets up and continues with what she was previously doing. It is so hard ignoring her calls for me, but I can't be picking her up every time she wants attention, especially with my bump growing so large by the day!
Her vocabulary is enormous, I can't begin to list all the words she is now saying or stringing together. Some of them that I can recall at this moment are "wadee" for water, "thip" for ship, "bus", "naughty", "wowee" for flower, "dolthin" for dolphin, "ephant" for elephant, "Harley Boy" for Harley (as taught to her by her proud daddy!), "TV", "iPad", "phone"... the list as I said it truly endless! I just LOVE this age and am truly amazed at least once a day by her ability to recall and remember things I have told her or have said. Perhaps time to also start watching myself... :)
Saturday, January 21, 2012
Paediatrician appointment update
On Wednesday Lily had her paediatritian appointment so we could have peace of mind about the piece of skin joining Lily's lip to her gum as well as her pigeon toed style of walking. Lily's initial paediatritian has relocated so we saw the new doctor who was lovely - very softly spoken and gentle. Upon entering the doctor's room, Lily was calm, chatty and playful, picking up a Barney teddy bear bigger than her and carrying it around with her!
Unfortunately that brave, confident exterior quickly faded when she realised we were in fact in a doctor's office and she went hysterical! And I am not exaggerating - she was so anxious, she started screaming and crying until she couldn't breath and went a shade of blue! I wasn't concerned as this has happened before so I just calmly told her to breath which she obviously eventually did. The quiet, gentle doctor looked rather taken aback by the outburst and complete hysteria my daughter was displaying, but then again, the last time Lily was in that office, she had blood taken from her tiny little arms whilst being forcably held down by a nurse and the doctor! I'm sure those traumatic memories came flooding back poor baby.
Besides the outbursts, screams, desperate pleas and lack of breath, I got the answers I was after. Lily does in fact have quite a substantial, thick piece of skin connecting her lip to her gum which has made the gap between her top two front teeth quite wide. It isn't the superficial, thinner type of condition that most people rectify with braces once the permanent teeth have made their arrival. The doctor therefore advised that we consult with a peadiatric dentist who we are now seeing on Monday. I just hope and pray that Lily doesn't recognise the dentist as a doctor and that the whole process is far less traumatic for her. Luckily my husband is coming along to this appointment as the whole experience on Wednesday was quite devastating and exhausting for this almost 7 months pregnant mother!
The doctor also confirmed that Lily is pigeon toed, however, they don't usually worry about that sort of thing until the child is 2 years old. They then need to determine whether it is skeletal or muscular, however, she believes that Lily's is muscular at this point in time. So in the interim, she is to walk bare foot as much as possible and when we buy her shoes we should opt for Woolworths' Walk Mates or Green Cross shoes. Hopefully both those options have at least a few trendy options for my stylish little fashionista!
I also checked a little skin mark I noticed on her little leg - it looks like a scar but I know that Lily hasn't cut or hurt herself there before. The doctor said that it is a white birthmark which may grow as Lily does but it isn't anything to be concerned about. It is so slight I think I'm the only one who has ever noticed it so I'm really not too worried.
Other than that, Lily is developing wonderfully, has an incredible, above average vocabulary and is doing really well. Let's just hope the dentist can shed some light on the lip/gum issue and that whatever he suggests, won't be too traumatic for both Lily and mommy!
Unfortunately that brave, confident exterior quickly faded when she realised we were in fact in a doctor's office and she went hysterical! And I am not exaggerating - she was so anxious, she started screaming and crying until she couldn't breath and went a shade of blue! I wasn't concerned as this has happened before so I just calmly told her to breath which she obviously eventually did. The quiet, gentle doctor looked rather taken aback by the outburst and complete hysteria my daughter was displaying, but then again, the last time Lily was in that office, she had blood taken from her tiny little arms whilst being forcably held down by a nurse and the doctor! I'm sure those traumatic memories came flooding back poor baby.
Besides the outbursts, screams, desperate pleas and lack of breath, I got the answers I was after. Lily does in fact have quite a substantial, thick piece of skin connecting her lip to her gum which has made the gap between her top two front teeth quite wide. It isn't the superficial, thinner type of condition that most people rectify with braces once the permanent teeth have made their arrival. The doctor therefore advised that we consult with a peadiatric dentist who we are now seeing on Monday. I just hope and pray that Lily doesn't recognise the dentist as a doctor and that the whole process is far less traumatic for her. Luckily my husband is coming along to this appointment as the whole experience on Wednesday was quite devastating and exhausting for this almost 7 months pregnant mother!
The doctor also confirmed that Lily is pigeon toed, however, they don't usually worry about that sort of thing until the child is 2 years old. They then need to determine whether it is skeletal or muscular, however, she believes that Lily's is muscular at this point in time. So in the interim, she is to walk bare foot as much as possible and when we buy her shoes we should opt for Woolworths' Walk Mates or Green Cross shoes. Hopefully both those options have at least a few trendy options for my stylish little fashionista!
I also checked a little skin mark I noticed on her little leg - it looks like a scar but I know that Lily hasn't cut or hurt herself there before. The doctor said that it is a white birthmark which may grow as Lily does but it isn't anything to be concerned about. It is so slight I think I'm the only one who has ever noticed it so I'm really not too worried.
Other than that, Lily is developing wonderfully, has an incredible, above average vocabulary and is doing really well. Let's just hope the dentist can shed some light on the lip/gum issue and that whatever he suggests, won't be too traumatic for both Lily and mommy!
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